Q&A: How can I get my partner to “go down” on me?

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Each week, The CSPH answers questions that have been submitted anonymously through our Formspring. This week’s question is: I recently started dating someone who seems to not want to go down on me. I suspect it may be due to cultural reasons. Regardless, this just doesn’t seem fair, since he has no problem with me giving him oral sex. I feel like we should both be on equal playing ground, … [Read more...]

Sunday Secrets: March 18, 2012

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. Every week, the owner of this art project (Frank Warren) displays selected new secrets on the Postsecret website. The CSPH highlights those that discuss issues pertaining to sexuality, gender and reproductive justice issues. … [Read more...]

Sunday Secrets: February 26, 2012

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. Every week, the owner of this art project (Frank Warren) displays selected new secrets on the Postsecret website. The CSPH highlights those that discuss issues pertaining to sexuality, gender and reproductive justice issues. … [Read more...]

Q&A: Why does he go limp?

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Each week the CSPH answers anonymous questions we receive through our Fromspring. This week we are answering: Why does he go limp? What is the best method to make him feel more comfortable/not limp? Answer: Without knowing all the details, it’s difficult (and, in fact, impossible) for me to say why exactly your partner does not maintain an erection. Everybody and every situation is … [Read more...]

Monday Reviews – Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel

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Every Monday, the CSPH takes a look at a book or film focusing on an aspect of sexuality. This week we are featuring Esther Perel’s 2007 book Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence is the paperback version of Perel’s best-selling and award-winning book, Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic, which has been … [Read more...]

Sunday Secrets: April 25, 2011

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. Every week, the owner of this art project (Frank Warren) displays selected new secrets on the Postsecret website. The CSPH highlights those that discuss issues pertaining to sexuality, gender and reproductive justice issues. … [Read more...]

Sunday Secrets: March 20, 2011

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. Every week, the owner of this art project (Frank Warren) displays selected new secrets on the Postsecret website. The CSPH highlights those that discuss issues pertaining to sexuality, gender and reproductive justice issues. … [Read more...]